What do you say to your spouse when you're mad?
“Speak when you are angry and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.” ― Ambrose Bierce “Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” ― Buddha “Never respond to an angry person with a fiery comeback, even if he deserves it...Don't allow his anger to become your anger.” ― Bohdi Sanders “The best fighter is never angry.” ― Lao Tzu Key points: No relationship is a perfect ten. Attack the problem, not each other. Acknowledge that both of you are imperfect, and you'll make mistakes. Have you ever been mad at your spouse, it made you wonder if they're the same person that made you elated moments ago? No relationship is a perfect ten. Don't be fooled by the affection that you see some people displaying in public and on social media. There's no perfection when it comes on to dealing with humans. It's even harder when you share spaces with them. People work on what th